Mary Benham, 1780–1860 (aged 80 years)
- Name
 - Mary /Benham/
 - Given names
 - Mary
 - Surname
 - Benham
 
| Birth |  January 4, 1780 
48 
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| Death of a maternal grandfather | Isaac Beecher April 4, 1784 (aged 4 years)  | 
| Death of a maternal grandfather | Isaac Beecher April 14, 1784 (aged 4 years)  | 
| Death of a maternal grandmother | Thankful Blakeslee January 14, 1786 (aged 6 years)  | 
| Death of a mother | Desire Beecher August 26, 1809 (aged 29 years)  | 
| Death of a father | Ebenezer Benham Jr September 28, 1811 (aged 31 years)  | 
| Death of a sister | Anar (Anna) Benham April 17, 1820 (aged 40 years)  | 
| Death of a sister | Anar (Anna) Benham April 17, 1820 (aged 40 years)  | 
| Death of a sister | Hannah Benham 1833 (aged 52 years)  | 
| Death of a brother | Eli Benham November 18, 1837 (aged 57 years)  | 
| Death of a sister | Martha Benham June 29, 1845 (aged 65 years)  | 
| Death of a brother | Ebenezer Benham 1850 (aged 69 years)  | 
| Death of a sister | Esther Benham February 27, 1852 (aged 72 years)  | 
| Death of a brother | Isaac Benham December 7, 1853 (aged 73 years)  | 
| Death |  January 23, 1860 (aged 80 years) | 
| father | 
                        
 
        1731–1811     
    Birth: September 21, 1731 
28 
22 — New Haven, New Haven, Connecticut, United States Death: September 28, 1811 — Hopewell now Hopewell Center, Ontario, New York, United States          | 
                
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| mother | 
                        
 
        1734–1809     
    Birth: 1734 
35 
27 — New Haven, New Haven, Connecticut, United States Death: August 26, 1809 — Hopewell Center, NY          | 
                
| Marriage | Marriage — 1755 — New Haven, New Haven, Connecticut, United States | 
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                                                                                                    2 years                                                             
                        
                        elder sister                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1757–1833     
    Birth: January 15, 1757 
25 
23 — Waterbury, New Haven, Connecticut, United States Death: 1833          | 
                
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                                                                                                    20 months                                                             
                        
                        elder sister                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1758–1845     
    Birth: August 24, 1758 
26 
24 — Waterbury, New Haven, Connecticut, United States Death: June 29, 1845 — Winchester, Connecticut          | 
                
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                                                                                                    2 years                                                             
                        
                        elder brother                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1760–1853     
    Birth: October 21, 1760 
29 
26 — Waterbury, New Haven, Connecticut, USA Death: December 7, 1853 — Jericho, Windsor, VT, USA          | 
                
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                                                                                                    23 months                                                             
                        
                        elder sister                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1762–1852     
    Birth: September 23, 1762 
31 
28 — Waterbury, New Haven, Connecticut, United States Death: February 27, 1852          | 
                
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                                                                                                    22 months                                                             
                        
                        elder sister                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1764–1820     
    Birth: July 11, 1764 
32 
30 — Waterbury, New Haven, Connecticut, USA Death: April 17, 1820 — Hopewell, Ontario, New York, USA          | 
                
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                                                                                                    2 years                                                             
                        
                        elder brother                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1766–1850     
    Birth: July 21, 1766 
34 
32 — Waterbury, New Haven, Connecticut, United States Death: 1850 — Hopewell, Ontario, New York, United States          | 
                
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                                                                                                    23 months                                                             
                        
                        elder brother                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1768–1837     
    Birth: June 8, 1768 
36 
34 — Waterbury, New Haven, Connecticut, United States Death: November 18, 1837 — Hopewell, Ontario, New York, United States          | 
                
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                                                                                                    7 years                                                             
                        
                        elder brother                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1774–1774     
    Birth: 1774 
42 
40 Death: 1774 — Norfolk, Litchfield, Connecticut, United States          | 
                
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                                                                                                    6 years                                                             
                        
                        herself                     | 
                    
                        
 
        1780–1860     
    Birth: January 4, 1780 
48 
46 — Goshen, Orange, New York, United States Death: January 23, 1860 — Goshen, Orange, New York, United States          |